What if it is the actual extractor that is not easily sliding and jamming the mouth into the freebore?
That would explain why it is so hard to extract after you manage to close it.
If you remove the extractor from the bolt then you will know, it takes 2 minutes and also easy to resolve if that is the issue.
If the extractor is the problem, what’s the fix? I may be experiencing the same thing. But I do swear by silk sweet lube.