I will try to keep this short
First, this was a total surprise and NOT expected in any shape
This is in Florida so that makes a huge difference I believe
An old Neighbour who I am friendly with (and have done a fair bit of work for him around his home and yard - never charged as he is a friendly neighbor) came over yesterday and told me he wants me to take all of his guns and ammo when he dies - he is 83 and not in great health.................so it was important to him to get this sorted ahead of time
He showed me the contents of his safe and there is a lot there
All guns are 100% mint, most never fired and all well maintained and lubricated over the years (he is ex-military, so took great care of them and really just collected them, rather than firing most of them).......
He gave me the safe combination and a key to his front door that on the event of his death he wants me to come and get them
He has no kids and only a sister in law (one of my concerns)
As I say, this is FL and there are no issues with transferring/selling privately down here..................from what I can tell
Clearly, this could be a few years away or even later/sooner.........................but he was very keen to get this sorted and want to hand them to someone who would then hand then down to their sons
So my questions.................
any issues or concerns you think I need to be aware of?
Clearly one concern is the sister in law - he tells me he has told her he is giving me the guns - but if i go over and empty the safe, what is to stop her of accusing me of theft (I have never met her) - Maybe he needs to type up a note/letter confirming that I "inherit" the contents of the safe
He does not want any of the guns on his will as he does not want anyone to know where they end up and certainly does not want them collected and destroyed by enforcement
If he dies in the house and the cops have to attend - I am sure they will want access to the safe as a safety issue
Clearly I will be delighted to take them, but at the same time, do not want to put myself in a bad position for some reason I have not thought of
Any thoughts or views on this/best way to proceed
First, this was a total surprise and NOT expected in any shape
This is in Florida so that makes a huge difference I believe
An old Neighbour who I am friendly with (and have done a fair bit of work for him around his home and yard - never charged as he is a friendly neighbor) came over yesterday and told me he wants me to take all of his guns and ammo when he dies - he is 83 and not in great health.................so it was important to him to get this sorted ahead of time
He showed me the contents of his safe and there is a lot there
All guns are 100% mint, most never fired and all well maintained and lubricated over the years (he is ex-military, so took great care of them and really just collected them, rather than firing most of them).......
He gave me the safe combination and a key to his front door that on the event of his death he wants me to come and get them
He has no kids and only a sister in law (one of my concerns)
As I say, this is FL and there are no issues with transferring/selling privately down here..................from what I can tell
Clearly, this could be a few years away or even later/sooner.........................but he was very keen to get this sorted and want to hand them to someone who would then hand then down to their sons
So my questions.................
any issues or concerns you think I need to be aware of?
Clearly one concern is the sister in law - he tells me he has told her he is giving me the guns - but if i go over and empty the safe, what is to stop her of accusing me of theft (I have never met her) - Maybe he needs to type up a note/letter confirming that I "inherit" the contents of the safe
He does not want any of the guns on his will as he does not want anyone to know where they end up and certainly does not want them collected and destroyed by enforcement
If he dies in the house and the cops have to attend - I am sure they will want access to the safe as a safety issue
Clearly I will be delighted to take them, but at the same time, do not want to put myself in a bad position for some reason I have not thought of
Any thoughts or views on this/best way to proceed
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