There are a few that will ship to NY state . Check websites they will state under their shipping laws section if they won’t ship direct to your door in NY .
Sorry for not directly naming specific companies , the FUAC Gestapo is everywhere.
There is nothing *currently* in the law preventing them.
FUAC's goons have a habit of harassing companies who ship perfectly legal stuff he doesn't happen to like to US.
So, people here are a bit reluctant to share their sources.
Honestly, I think we should ask the individual vendors their preference. Maybe some don't want to take the risk of getting a harassing phone call from the NYSP, but others would relish the chance to tell them to pound sand and would like the extra business that word of mouth advertising provides.
In any case, you probably won't get anyone to give you a link in this thread, but some diligent searching should turn up what you are looking for.
Bottom line, what you seek is perfectly legal and they are out there, you just have to look.