After a while your awareness of your carry gun will be about the same level as you have for your socks i.e. if you make a conscious effort to be aware of it you will, otherwise it won't even register.
Agree 100%+. My initial issue was feeling over-confident. Avoid, avoid is best policy unless you have no choice of course...I'll add that you belong to a different group now. Don't feel like rehashing it now, but you really need to avoid any type of confrontation that has a chance of turning physical. It will only turn a bad situation into a possible life or death situation. You see trouble now, it's best to turn away and not get involved unless someone is getting killed.
I've been through this before, a simple argument that turned to a shove could have had really bad consequences had I not lowered my head, turned around and walked away. (Feeling like a large vagina on top of it.)
Agreed. Mindset is important though and preparing yourself mentally and having a plan are important as well. You’re right and you won’t know how you’ll react in that situation until you’re there. Being more prepared than the bad guy is important.My final 2 cents on this one. Training, training and more training is the key. And even with training, just ask the military guys and LEO's on this site. If you've never been in a life threating situation before - you are going to piss yourself. Carrying and carrying with experience (of some kind ) are two way different things. OK, I'll shut up now and let the boys that have been there before tell you what an adrenaline shit-fest it's going to feel like if you're not prepared.
One of the reasons I recommend civilian force on force classes.My final 2 cents on this one. Training, training and more training is the key. And even with training, just ask the military guys and LEO's on this site. If you've never been in a life threating situation before - you are going to piss yourself. Carrying and carrying with experience (of some kind ) are two way different things. OK, I'll shut up now and let the boys that have been there before tell you what an adrenaline shit-fest it's going to feel like if you're not prepared.
I don't bother thinking about what if's in a particular situation because I've never been in that type of situation. But I absolutely try to take note of exits, keep people in front of me if possible, and be as situationally aware as I can.I constantly run through situations in my head and say to myself this is how I would react in this situation. Sometimes it’s I’d walk away, sometimes it’s I’d escape out he backdoor, and sometimes it’s I’d come out shooting. I try to never have my back to the largest threat I perceive, but there are always curveballs. At a restaurant you think the main door is the biggest threat but a guy pissed at his wife could draw on her or some one could come in the back door that’s left open on a hot day. Don’t get locked into one strategy or one mindset either. Do the best you can and make it home with your family at all costs.
But just like the socks, if you go out without them, *then* you'll be aware of it.After a while your awareness of your carry gun will be about the same level as you have for your socks i.e. if you make a conscious effort to be aware of it you will, otherwise it won't even register.
If you train often enough and well enough, then you'll react the way you trained.Agreed. Mindset is important though and preparing yourself mentally and having a plan are important as well. You’re right and you won’t know how you’ll react in that situation until you’re there. Being more prepared than the bad guy is important.
Oh, absolutely true. I feel naked when I am out and about while not carrying. In fact I will go a step farther, I primarily shoulder carry and especially when walking I notice the holster and mag pouch up against me it feels a bit like being hugged. The lack of a holstered gun against my body feels..... disconcerting. Rather like going without undergarments.But just like the socks, if you go out without them, *then* you'll be aware of it.